How to start an sms sex chat with a woman

16-Jun-2018 08:42

This is a critical time period, especially if she’s attractive and going out at night. The ‘secret weapon’ I and all my instructors use is the art of text messaging. because if you send text messages like the average guy you will blow it big time. You see, the real secret here is in using BANTER in to communicate. They can be light and friendly, fun and flirty, seductive, or downright nasty. Unless you have established that these words get your girl off. The things you send should make you smile when you think about sending them. The obvious example is a late night text asking if you are out and about means "I want you to come home with me". This was our first contact: It’s playful, and I signed my name, because it was my first contact with her after meeting her, per rule 3 above.

Don’t be foolish enough to believe just because she was nuts over you last night, some other guy can’t do the same tonight. Being boring is a foolproof recipe to chase women away. Banter is the most powerful attraction tool, so why wouldn’t you use it? One of my instructors, Sean Deacon, wrote a kick ass article that tells you exactly what to do, what to avoid, and he’s even included real world EXAMPLES for you to learn from. In my opinion, it is a key tool available for interacting with women. I have had text message conversations that fit into all of these. Sean Newman has posted up some really great stuff about sending dirty text messages to your girl. This can be a sly smirk, a big fun smile, or a seductive smile, but it should be positive. * * * * I posted this next one as an example a while ago, but I thought it was really good, so I am using it again.

If you send something like, Brevity: You have to say everything very quickly.

The great thing is, it’s pretty darn easy once you know the right way to do it. I would send messages as he describes to my last girlfriend every now and then, to remind her how hot she was for me. Walter also made a great post about using text messages in the time between when you meet a girl and when you get her over for a date. You can send a girl a text a day or so after you meet her, before a day2, after a day 2, after sex, when she is your girlfriend, etc.

I want to try to put together some general thoughts on Text messages should be short and fun, and flirty, charming or seductive. If things start going logical in a text message convo, then you need to stop, or redirect the conversation right away. Text messaging is a good way to stay in contact with a girl that you can’t see often.

Usually a girl will initially react generically, ie. Girls aren’t used to guys flirting with them with text message. You have to ramp it up immediately after her response. I think that phone and email should mainly be used to set up meets, but for pure flirting, text is better.

Lord knows I have sent off some dumb text messages.

Sean "jaz" Deacon ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ is available for both phone coaching and in-field coaching in the San Francisco area] Thanks for the break-dow and the great examples Sean! Learn more, hear from seminar attendees, and even see some video excerpts of the program at:

The great thing is, it’s pretty darn easy once you know the right way to do it. I would send messages as he describes to my last girlfriend every now and then, to remind her how hot she was for me. Walter also made a great post about using text messages in the time between when you meet a girl and when you get her over for a date. You can send a girl a text a day or so after you meet her, before a day2, after a day 2, after sex, when she is your girlfriend, etc. I want to try to put together some general thoughts on Text messages should be short and fun, and flirty, charming or seductive. If things start going logical in a text message convo, then you need to stop, or redirect the conversation right away. Text messaging is a good way to stay in contact with a girl that you can’t see often. Usually a girl will initially react generically, ie. Girls aren’t used to guys flirting with them with text message. You have to ramp it up immediately after her response. I think that phone and email should mainly be used to set up meets, but for pure flirting, text is better. Lord knows I have sent off some dumb text messages. Sean "jaz" Deacon ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ is available for both phone coaching and in-field coaching in the San Francisco area] Thanks for the break-dow and the great examples Sean! Learn more, hear from seminar attendees, and even see some video excerpts of the program at: by Jay Julio Hey Man, I'm about to reveal my VERY BEST technique for starting a conversation with a woman.