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27-Mar-2018 04:30

There is a lot of info you can find out about someone without “friending” them. I would drive 2 hours to have dinner with someone and then drive home. I would ask about their church/ministry, how they serve, who their pastor is, etc.

Spend the extra time learning as much as you can before taking the next step. I would discourage dating/getting to know anyone too far away. Again, I am trying to verify who they are in the Lord as well.

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“ Cliff Young, a contributing writer and a veteran single of many decades.

As for your gentleman friend seeking “chemistry,” I would inquire as to what kind of chemistry he is referring to.

I have had great spiritual, emotional and intellectual chemistry with friends of the opposite sex, which has resulted in amazing plutonic relationships over the years.

At some point down the line you will want (need) to meet this person face to face.

When you do, make sure you are prayed up and prayed for. SHE SAID: Thanks for your honesty including fears and apprehensions regarding online dating. It’s never where we meet someone but our motives when we do meet them.

The World Wide Web has become not only a place where we can connect with people, information and ideas quickly, but also a place where “wolves” can hide behind the cloak of a username and fabricated profile in sheep’s clothing. I have seen my elderly and widowed mother be an enticement to male suitors who want a capable and desirable caretaker along with intimate female companionship.If it’s serious, I would even ask for their pastors contact information. SEE ALSO: Should the Guy Always Take the Lead in the Relationship? Be honest with any man you are talking too by letting him know you are getting to know several men online and that you are not dating anyone yet. Ask him to be praying about your friendship as well.But if and when you do decided to date someone, you will need to let them know. As you pray, and as the Lord leads then you can take the next step. As with all relationships, whether they are someone you go to church with, someone who lives in another state, 25 or 85, you have to trust the Lord through each step.This could be “friending” them on Facebook, meeting with them during the day, skyping, etc. While many go on Christian dating sites to date and eventually get married, there are many predators on these sites who are simply looking for a tender heart (and bank account) to take advantage of.This next step should not make you feel uncomfortable. They use all kinds of flowery language to pull you in. Let your friends know what you are doing so they can also be praying for you and trusting God.

The World Wide Web has become not only a place where we can connect with people, information and ideas quickly, but also a place where “wolves” can hide behind the cloak of a username and fabricated profile in sheep’s clothing. I have seen my elderly and widowed mother be an enticement to male suitors who want a capable and desirable caretaker along with intimate female companionship.If it’s serious, I would even ask for their pastors contact information. SEE ALSO: Should the Guy Always Take the Lead in the Relationship? Be honest with any man you are talking too by letting him know you are getting to know several men online and that you are not dating anyone yet. Ask him to be praying about your friendship as well.But if and when you do decided to date someone, you will need to let them know. As you pray, and as the Lord leads then you can take the next step. As with all relationships, whether they are someone you go to church with, someone who lives in another state, 25 or 85, you have to trust the Lord through each step.This could be “friending” them on Facebook, meeting with them during the day, skyping, etc. While many go on Christian dating sites to date and eventually get married, there are many predators on these sites who are simply looking for a tender heart (and bank account) to take advantage of.This next step should not make you feel uncomfortable. They use all kinds of flowery language to pull you in. Let your friends know what you are doing so they can also be praying for you and trusting God.Chances are though he is probably seeking chemistry of the physical nature which in and of itself is not wrong if it just means pure attraction.